Friday, 11 August 2017

Kal Aj aur Kal..


It was casual chatting- 'during our times...’, as the elderly always say. Mom and maasi reminiscing their childhood memories, and often comes an inherent spurt of laughter. This is so fascinating- some unbelievable and interesting facts that happened only then! Amid this discussion we too got a sneak peek of the yester-era. Some catchy snippets:

1. Buying chai patti daily: Unlike today's bulk buying, people then purchased goods according to daily requirement and not for monthly stock. The tea powder came in packets for charana, athana (I think these words will be out of dictionary very soon; or they already are? :O)


2. The serpentine ration queue: Buying of grains wasn't as easy as going to the grocery store downstairs or even simpler- opening your grocery app and placing the order. The ration market always had long queues to wait before you could get your quintal. The wheat, they say, wasn't as we see today, but red in colour and something like ‘Gahu (American) 1 Re kilo’ written on the price plate at the store.
Rice- which is a weakness to most wasn't a daily affair in most places in Maharashtra. It was a delicacy prepared only on festivals!
Green revolution was still underway and there wasn't surplus produce; but was organic!
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3. Exclusive foods: Dry fruits, almonds and jam and even apples were not common. A jam bottle (not readily available in markets then) was coveted and eaten with care so as not to finish early. Mangoes were a heaven's paradise (this hasn’t changed much) and they were careful not to leave any bit of the pulp from the peel. 
They fondly remembered their ‘first time encounters’ with these exclusives.

4. Making their own toys: Balls didn't come ready made. They were crafted with love and care, consolidating pieces of tyre rubber and scrap; grooming some artistic skills and craftsmanship you know! And losing this piece of toy was heartbreaking!

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5. Playing 'real': Play stations, mobile games or the latest fidget spinner- children were ‘happily’ oblivious of these. Children back then didn't depend on digital aids or technological gizmos for entertainment or engagement. They played games in the ‘real’ and not virtual world. It was as simple as stepping out of the house in the open playground and then there was lagori, gilli danda and marbles.
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6. Cycling: This was a luxury and often meant borrowing and sharing of bicycles among peers. It would have been a sight when girls tried their brother’s cycle (don't get the purpose of the rod) and managed to paddle with a tilt! 
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7. Playing in the mud: Parents today would get palpitations at this thought! Making forts in monsoon with one’s own architecture and moulding the clay with own hands would have been a delightful exercise; certainly more than bringing the ready-made ones on Diwali.
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8. Sharing: This was ‘practical’ and not merely mugging definitions from the moral values book; especially with each one having siblings. There was always everyone’s thought when the pie was divided! Using the clothes and textbooks of the elder brothers and sisters was an unsaid rule. The elder one was lucky here, while the youngest chap getting the (second hand raised to no. of elder sibling times) passed on material. :D
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9. Lifestyle and surroundings: There was no-motor obsession! With no mobile, people were ‘mobile’! They walked everywhere and anywhere, for miles, effortlessly. It didn’t require treadmills to complete our workout quota. Students walked to school and came back home for lunch. There was no television, screens to glare at. Thus, there was ample time, life was hassle free. The air was fresher. Pune was known as a ‘non-fan station’! So there were no ACs, no gyms and less medical stores!


10. Celebrations: It was an elaborate affair. Festivals were celebrated in real and not merely on WatsApp. But as a witty student once said, “All said and done, we cannot live without technology and no one would like to go back to the 1G era.”


11. The 31st: The month-end time was the most dreadful for most households! That eagerly waiting on 31st of the month for dad to return home with salary was the most awaited occasion! Tensions did exist, not like the ones today, but more basic with what to cook food tomorrow? Will it suffice the family? When compared, I don’t know which are worse. (Thankfully, we live in better times.)

Those times we cannot believe, can only afford to imagine! They have been through it, yet they were happy and content and lived life to the fullest. They had some tough life lessons which made them face challenges head on, unlike today’s overtly pampered kids. Sanitised hands and low immunity!

They found happiness! Childhood was a memorable time for them. Some were good experiences, while ​some they never want again. But this is life- of bitter and sweet experiences. And who knows, we too would tell our younger ones, “During our times…”
It is to move on with lessons, thanking God for the good things and hoping for a bright future. It is to find happiness between Kal, aj aur kal!

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